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Been There, Done That…No kids or cats

Palm Beach County’s animal shelter just announced more than 180 cats need new homes. Why don’t all of us childless women get together and adopt them? I don’t have kids or cats.

Can you think of anything more insulting to infertile women or stepmoms like me to be taxed for not bearing children?

I’ve been a journalist for decades, so I never write or comment about politics. But Trump’s vice presidential candidate JD Vance broke my record of neutrality.

I’m well aware I live in Trump country, and I’ve been covering him for years. I took my Dad to a press conference he gave with opera great Luciano Pavarotti when Trump owned a New Jersey casino hotel and I was a Trenton reporter. I covered a businesswoman who had a gallery in Trump Tower and was an unabashed loyalist. So, this isn’t about him or his opponent Kamala Harris. It’s about me and my fellow females who aren’t moms. 

I love and have always loved being Aunt Marci. My sister and her husband have a grown son and daughter. I was on the phone with him Tuesday and my niece was just here twice. I married a man with a 6-year-old more than 43 years ago and I treasure my relationship with her and her family. We had shared custody like millions of other couples who remarried after divorce and didn’t start a second family. I’m close with my late best friend’s daughter who’s a seasoned public professional now. She made me a birthday party and she still calls me Aunt Marci. Most of the women in my generation had kids. We always socialized with family and professional colleagues when their children were young. Nobody left us out.

And I’ve never ever met a woman who substituted a cat for a child.

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